36F single, blonde, high functioning and highly educated gal. I have a stressful and demanding career, but I'm still ALL WOMAN, who secretly wants to look like a 1940s pinup model in her spare time (I know, it's a weird dichotomy). It's time to start exploring other passions I've previously tried to ignore...
I use this blog to express myself and as a roadmap of who I am as a woman and a sexual being -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- T.W.O.....C.O.R.E....V.A.L.U.E.S... OF MY WORLD ARE: ..................................................................................................................
#1 WOMEN ARE INHERENTLY SEXUAL BEINGS, some more so than others, BUT WE ARE!!! We are also sent mixed signals our WHOLE DAMN LIVES. We're told to be beautiful, that it's good to be desired. But we're also told that wanting sex, and too much sex, is WRONG, and that it undermines our value as a person. We're told it's the men who are supposed to enjoy sex, which is why it's ok for them to have lots of it. I hope with time (and further advances in the feminist movement) these subtle but POWERFUL themes, ideas, and stereotypes will fade out in our culture and gender constructs. Until then LADIES & GENTLEMEN, if you're a woman who appreciates sex, or if you're a dude that likes your woman to want to have sex with you, and explore fun new ways to do it, then do us a solid and stop with the slut shaming and rape culture. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
#2 THE BRAIN IS THE PRIMARY SEXUAL ORGAN. And that couldn't be more evident in how much thrill I get from sexual tension, flirting, and pursuit. So some of my posts are more G-rated and boring ONLY because the build up and the mental back-and-forth are SO arousing for me.
I enjoy sassy, quick witted conversation. It's such a turn on when a man can reciprocate it right back to me. It's even MORE a turn on when he subtly hints that I'll be paying for that sass later on. ; ) ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
Congrats to everyone here for acknowledging their sexuality and desires, instead of repressing them.
As always, CONSENT IS MANDATORY, as is mutual respect amongst partners, and everyone being +18.
